Sunday, March 16, 2014

Exodus 20:17 "When Wanting Goes Bad"

                Well we’ve finally made our way to the 10th and final commandment.  We’ve spent every Sunday this year looking at the Ten Commandments that God gave to Israel there at Mount Sinai.  After next Sunday, we will have spent a total of 12 weeks looking at God’s Law and the condition of Israel both before and after receiving it.  We’ve talked about commandments that deal specifically with God and some that deal more with our earthly relationships.  We’ve seen commandments that are pretty straight forward and some that are more confusing.  However, there has typically been within each of the previous nine commandments an external action that is commanded of us.  There has been some type of outward behavior that should come about as a result of our keeping of the Law.  Well, in that regard, the final commandment is a little bit different than the previous nine.  The tenth commandment is almost entirely an inward commandment.  We could say that it is a commandment of the heart.  The tenth commandment says, “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male servant, or his female servant, or his ox, or his donkey, or anything that is your neighbor’s.”   This is the commandment against coveting.  You see, coveting is not an external action.  We’ve never witnessed someone covet something.  Sure we’ve heard sayings like “he’s green with envy” or “you can see the jealously in her eyes”, but these are just phrases.  None of us have actually seen coveting and jealously like we can observe theft or murder.  So, if somehow we were to get this far in our look at the commandments without thinking that God is concerned just as much with our emotions and our inward keeping of the Law (which I hope isn’t the case), then we’ve finally come to a place where that truth is inescapable.  God’s commanding us to not covet isn’t a command that has to do with our outward actions, but with our thoughts and our hearts as well.

                I want to take just a moment before dealing with the application of this commandment and point out some observations from the wording of this commandment that might help us to better hone in on the scope of this commandment.  First, notice the repetition of the directive “You shall not covet.”  It’s there twice.  None of the other commandments have this specific repeating of the directive within them.  This is unique to only the tenth commandment.  Remember, when something is repeated in Scripture, it means that we are to listen very closely and that what is being said is of the utmost importance.  So, obviously it’s very important that we understand that we are not to covet according to God’s Law.  Also, if we add up the things that are mentioned specifically here for us not to covet (house, wife, male and female servants, ox, donkey, or anything that belongs to our neighbor), we would find seven things.  Well, seven is the number of completion in the Hebrew culture.  In essence, this list says to us that not just these things mentioned are we not to covet, but we are not to covet anything else that is our neighbors.  You see, we are to refrain from coveting entirely.  There is not one thing that it is acceptable to covet.  Why?  Well, much like a few weeks ago in our look at stealing, coveting shows a denial of God’s providence.  Following that line of thought, a denial of God’s providence is a denial of God’s fulfilling every promise that He makes in His Word.  So it’s no wonder why God takes the issue of coveting so seriously.

                Now I feel like I have to say something before I go any further into what is referred to here by the word covet.  As all of you know, I have kids in my house.  Amy and I want nothing more than to raise them up to be good, Christian adults.  We want them to make good choices; not to please us, but because it is the right thing to do.  We want others to know that we have taught them to be polite and respectful, not so that they praise our parenting, but so that they know that our children were raised properly.  We want our future son and daughters in law to be thankful for the job that we did raising them.  As such, we are constantly teaching them right from wrong, how to be polite, and how they are to act properly (a challenge that sometimes seems like Amy and I are fighting a losing battle).  One of the never-ending struggles on this front is fighting the two dreaded words “I want.”  Whether it’s the walk through Target where Ashby proceeds to tell us that she wants every toy we pass, or when  Thomas lets us know he’s thirsty simply by telling us “I want some juice”, we fight the “I want”.  Well, this “I want” isn’t coveting.  Coveting is not simply wanting something.  There’s nothing wrong with having wants and desires in this world.  Our wanting for things can be a good thing and a driving force in our lives.  I want to see God’s kingdom grown.  I want to see every church, every Bible study, and every mission organization full and bursting at the seams.  I want the best for my family and friends.  There’s nothing inherently wrong with wanting things.

                Where “I want” turns into coveting is when it becomes a matter of consummation; it becomes idolatry.  Paul, in Colossians 3:5, says, “Put to death therefore what is earthly in you:  sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.”  There it is, covetousness is equal to idolatry.  You see, when we want something, we work hard in order to achieve it, that’s the American dream.  As a matter of fact, Cadillac has just release a new ad campaign built upon that very premise.  If you haven’t seen it, I’ll give you the premise as concise as I can.  It basically states that as Americans, we work harder than most other countries (or at least work more hours) in order to afford the finer things in life, like a new Cadillac.  Work ethic questions aside, their ad is based upon the fact that in order for us to get the things we want, we have to work for them.  Wanting these things and working for them is not covetous by nature.  However, it’s when our wanting of these things becomes what is most important to us that we slip into the realm of covetousness and idolatry.  When we neglect our families because we’re putting in more time at the office to get stuff (which many times we tell ourselves that we’re neglecting them for their benefit), when we shun our friends because they aren’t of a status that will elevate us to where we really want to be in the social pecking order, when we neglect our faith because that’s time that could be spent chasing the almighty dollar, that’s when the coveting starts to come in.  That’s when “I want” turns into coveting and idolatry.

                Have you ever found yourself looking at someone else’s life and thinking, “Man, if I could just have that then I would be set.  They sure are lucky.”  Well, they might be lucky, but there’s a pretty good chance that you’re lucky too.  There’s a good chance that you’re blessed so far beyond what you see.  I know that I’ve made statements like that in my life before when seeing the success and condition of someone else’s life, and I’m willing to bet that you have too.  I also know that I have been told by dear friends just how lucky I am when it comes to the ways in which God has blessed me.  The sad fact is that so often it takes someone pointing out my luck and my blessings before I even realize just how numerous they are.  I thank God for friends, family, and colleagues in ministry who constantly remind me that my outlook ought to be one of thanks for what I have than jealously over the things that I want and don’t have.

                You see, this sin (perhaps more than any of the other commandments) isn’t a matter of “if” you violate the commandment, but “when, how often, and in what ways” we violate it.  The questions then become, what can we do about it and what ought we do about it?  Well, the answers, much like every other week (and I hope that by now you’re getting the point if you haven’t already) is to thank God.  We need to thank Him that despite our falling so miserably short of the standard that He has set for us, that the blood of Christ fills that gap.  The blood of the slain Lamb fills the vast canyon that exists between where we are and where we ought to be.  Our salvation isn’t based on our keeping of the Law, but on the One who has fulfilled it on our behalf.  Secondly, we must pray that the Holy Spirit will work in our hearts and help us to overcome the feelings of covetousness and jealously that so commonly plague us.  It’s only when we have the power of God working through us that we can ever hope to have a chance to overcome the effects of sin and the havoc that it wreaks on our souls.  Pray for a sense of contentment.  Pray for an appreciation of the blessings that you have already been given.  Pray for and strive to keep God as your number one priority.  Keep God as the center of your life that all things revolve around.  For as long as God is kept at the center of who we are, then our wanting of all lesser things will never become what drives us.  Let us be driven by our love for God and our desire to see His kingdom spread and His gospel proclaimed across this earth.  Glory be to God; in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.  Amen.

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